Friday, January 02, 2015

Starting 2015... With a Thank You

“Thank you” is a simple but an impactful word. A "Thank you" from the heart conveys a message of deep gratitude to the person who made a difference in your life!

It is the 1st of Jan 2015 today.  A holiday for many offices including that of my husband. It isn't a holiday at my office and I decided to hire a rick. It is a dull, cold  and foggy winter morning. The kind of morning which makes sipping a cup of tea seem heaven! I walked to the rick and conveyed my destination details to the driver. They seem to have turns ferrying passengers and the one who was supposed to drive me to work, was away. We drove to a nearby tea stall where the swapping of drivers was to be done. I was busy on my phone when I saw my designated driver pass the tea cup he bought to the driver who just drove me to the stall. Before I could ask him to have his tea, he jumped into the driver's seat and started driving.  It is a half an hour ride and all through the ride I felt guilty of denying him his cup of tea! After reaching office, I paid him his fare. I paid him some extra money and asked him to have some tea and topped it up with a "Thank you". The smile on his face wiped away the guilt from my heart.

As I walked to my desk, this incident made me think… What would I have done, if there was no such drivers to drive me to office when needed? Life would have been so difficult without them. Even if I have all the world's money, will I be able to sustain without their services? Sure, money can buy everything, but what if everyone had money and there was no one to provide these services? With these thoughts I decided to thank all those people who play some or the other role in making our life simple!

Let me start by thanking God for all the wonderful moments that captured my heart in 2014. It was a happening year full of  first time experiences. My baby crawling, blabbering, sitting and walking. Celebrating my baby's first birthday  was an achievement in itself… I am now a mom with 1 year experience… wow

A big Thank you to all my wonderful Family and Friends. Life would have been so boring and monotonous, hadn't it been made colorful by you. It was wonderful to have the family get together for occasions like Birthday, Engagements, festivals etc. It was nice to get a peek into each other's life through the groups on WhatsApp! Those hilarious group chats with cousins, or my friends back at CA were amazing. The physical distance from home and friends never felt so huge due to this. Having a loving family and few close friends to support you is the best thing that you can ever ask for!

I have always been thankful to all these wonderful people surrounding me year after year. This year I would like to make some addition to the people I'd like to extend my gratitude to!
The domestic help I hired, helped me to devote some time for myself. I would not have been able to do justice to my role as a full time working mom hadn't it been for them. The fruit and vegetable vendors and the shopkeepers deserve a word of gratitude.

The housekeeping staff at our office, the canteen boys... the gardeners.... the list goes on... A special mention of the people like doctors, farmers, soldiers... looks like the list is endless. Our life would be incomplete if at all these people did not play the roles they currently do!

With that in mind, the one thing that I decided to do in 2015 is to Respect the dignity of labour and be grateful for the services provided by people. So the next time I pay my domestic help her monthly salary, I will not forget to say a Thank You...