Being a reader of psychology i always wondered at the different thoughts going into my mind, some good some not so good.Analysing people around me has been one of my favorite passtime.I've always been trying to figure out how people behave sometimes and how different people react differently to the same situations.
I've found some people with such a positive attitude towards life, that they make others feel the same too. we always hav a 50% chance mostly, either things will be the way we want them to be, or they wont. I know some people who will remain calm and composed wen things dont go the way they expect, while i've seen people who cant remain calm even wen things go the way they expect , might be due to the fear that things mite go rong.
"The person who wears green glasses will always see things green". What you have in your mind, you will try to figure it out in people. Wondered ever why some people can get along so well with the same person you just hate to look at? we tend to have an opinion about a person wen we meet for the first time. with time, we tend to find the same faults wid him and now more frequently. If we analyse the person fairly without any prejudice, we will come to the conclusion that , wat perspective we had about the person earlier was totally different. So I never judge a person from the first impression, coz first impression can be deceiving. After interaction with the person we can figure out whether we like the person or not. Sometimes we take an instant liking to a person from day 1 we meet,ever wondered why? i still cant find an answer to this...
Me, a person who used to take tensions thinking about things that will happen in the past. thanks to my best friend who is an optimist to the core, gave a new dimension to my thoughts. why should we worry for things which are not in our hands? and why worry about the things in future? it mite happen that things mite totally change too..
Rightly said: If your problem has a solution, Why WOrry?
If your problem does'nt have a solution, why worry?
there is no bounds to the thought process which goes on in the human mind. It can wonder from place to place so very easily and so very fast. Pulling the mind from its current state to the present is called "Concentration"
Why is is that we find certain things so very interesting and certain things so very boring? why is it that sometimes it is so very hard to concentrate?
Human mood swings. My mood swings from good to bad. Sometimes m so very happy and suddenly somthing so silly happens that my mood just becomes off and i become sulky and irritated.. How do i get myself into cheery mood once again?? any answers to this?? well i guess i hav n answer to that question.
Wen u feel your mood is becoming sour, just think about all those people who care for you, just think about all those things around you , which normally in your happy mood u find beautiful. Just think about your favorite song and play it. Try to analyse your mind and find out the true reason for your mood being sour.
Just ask yourself the question, is it worth it?? why should you hav such a sour mood wen life is so short and this second spent on frowning and mood off could hav been used to get a smile on a face.
Human mind, The most complex thing in the world. ever wondered at the random thoughts occurring to u wen idle. i just cant imagine where my mind travels wen im just alone travelling in a bus. In my thought process i tend to think about things i never imagined.
What about 6th sense? Many times it has happened to me that i feel i had witnessed the siuation going on in front of me, somewhere long in the past. It so happens that i remember vaguely the situation, but not wholly.
I still dont know why tht happens.
If only someone could devise a method to map human thoughts to a paper so that analysing could be far better.
I still try to find out answers to these questions reading Psychology books.
Someday i will definitely figure out "What goes on in my mind everytime i start with a thought process!!!"
A second-class citizen
6 years ago
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I can say that, it is correct to not create a perception about a person on the first meeting it self. It's human tendency which creates a lasting impression when you meet for the first time. To get rid of that you should have to be more practical and this you'll get with much experience.
And about 6th sense, I myself witnessed many such situations in past which i believe that i had gone through it. Still i am in confuse and never tried to find it out.
I can say that, it is correct to not create a perception about a person on the first meeting it self. It's human tendency which creates a lasting impression when you meet for the first time. To get rid of that you should have to be more practical and this you'll get with much experience.
And about 6th sense, I myself witnessed many such situations in past which i believe that i had gone through it. Still i am in confuse and never tried to find it out.
hi pradnaya
Absolutely agree with you pradnya, you give an inch to our thoughts and it takes a light-year…. But sometime I just enjoy this ride, fantasizing about all the things which are in “not-possible-with-this-salary” kind; else on the bumpy ride, feel like screaming OPEN DEAR EARTH AND SWALLOW ME WHOLE. And you see few species just don’t flame-up in the later, though having had the worst day at work they walkup to you and ask “bol bet lagayega… aaj India jitega.!!!”
I like your lines – If your problem has a solution why worry?? – If your problem doesn’t have a solution…. why worry..???
Although it took me a moment to sink this in…. but I still think I lack the intelligence to comprehend the magnitude of it.
Anyways you keep writing, and continue to look at things and think about things, without doing a thing ;-)
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